No One Likes Being 'Left On Read'...You know the feeling. You’ve sent a text, perhaps something with important information in it, a request to make plans, or even just a text to say hello. You patiently await a response and realise a fair amount of time has gone by. You check your WhatsApp and *oh god* you see the two blue ticks meaning not only has your message been delivered, the person has received it and IGNORED IT! What could this mean? Does it mean that they’re trying to get out of making plans with you, or think you’re silly for sending such an emotional text? When you’ve been left on read, your mind can spiral and leave you open to many different scenarios, most of them negative. With most of us sending hundreds of messages a day, whether that via email, text, social media, it’s not surprising that some are missed. However, when you’re waiting on a response from your friend, boyfriend or boss, things can seem a lot worse than they are! What should you do? Follow up with another text, get angry or simply just wait? Here’s how to get over being left on read by rationalising things before jumping to all those negative conclusions - it’s not you!
#1 Stay CalmSometimes it’s easy to panic and worry you’re being ghosted and begin to catastrophise the situation in your head. After a couple of hours of pranging out, you’ll be an anxious mess! There’s no point worrying about something you have no control over, nor know the circumstances for. The best thing to do is try to distract yourself by getting on with something else while you’re waiting for a response. 9 times out of ten, the person will come back to you by the time you’ve finished your task.
#2 It’s Their Personal StyleSometimes it can be a given that everyone is available at all times due to social media, but in fact some people are just the worst at responding! One of my friends has the worst habit of reading a message and intending to reply later and then just...not. I did speak to her about it once and she said she always had good intentions of replying to people, then by the time she remembered, too much time had gone by and she felt embarrassed. It is annoying, but you can’t often change people’s habits.